I noticed something about a week ago, regarding my blog. I do have followers (and I thank you for that). I look at my followers’ blogs and I follow quite a few. Very interesting stuff to read. I appreciate the different ideas, opinions. There are a lot of followers who are some type of…..fixer. That is the only word I can come up with at the moment. They are health/wellness bloggers, relationship bloggers, romance advisor’s – you get the drift. My wondering mind wants to know if those followers are hoping to maybe, fix me? Maybe get a new client? I don’t know. I am cynical, so I question everything. I do not mean any offense at all – HONEST! Or did they read my stuff and think “Holy Mother of God! This person is fucked up! Send help immediately!” Maybe they can use me as an example?
I think it would be cool to have a back and forth with people who follow me. Ask me a question, make a comment. It’s cool. Let’s have a discussion. Ya know?
So, I do have a question for the people in long term relationships. Do you talk to each other? What do you talk about? If you go out to a local watering hole. Do you sit and engage with others around you? Do you talk with your partner about anything? What do you talk about? Or do you sit in some type of comfortably uncomfortable silence? Is there a point and time where the talking just stops? Is that just the natural progression of a long-term relationship? I’m not a quiet person. What happens when the local watering hole doesn’t provide the same stimulation? Are you able to sit and talk endlessly with your partner? I’m totally serious. I want to hear what people have to say, what you think, what you do in your relationship. Cause when you boil it all down, what should be at the core of your long-term relationship? Love, communication, understanding, compatibility…………what is it? What do you think?